This coming Halloween offers a great opportunity for many to engage in new relationships with those around us or to revisit some old relationships with new intentionality. Regardless of what you think of the holiday and it’s roots, the culture we have been sent by Jesus to reach is going to celebrate Halloween. We all have in front of us a wide open door for engagement in our neighborhoods. I want to encourage you not to miss out on the opportunity.
If you are looking to be more intentionally engaged this year, I want to present you with a few ideas for how you can more effectively walk through the open door that Halloween presents to us.
Don’t just give out candy:
1. Give out the best Candy - Please, don’t give out tracks or toothbrushes or pennies…kids are looking for the master loot of candy. Put yourself in their shoes.
2. Think of the Parents - Consider having some Hot Apple Cider and pumpkin bread or muffins out for the parents who are bringing their little kiddos around the block. Make your entry-way inviting so they want to come closer and hang for a bit if possible.
3. Be Present - Don’t hide out all night. Come out to the door or hang out on the porch and if they stop to have some cider, get to know their names and where they live in the neighborhood.
4. Be EncouragingTell the kids you love their costumes and to have a great night. Practice building others up with words.
5. Party - If you’re really into it, you may want to throw a pre-Trick or Treating party. Provide dinner and drinks. Then, send the dads out trick or treating with the kids while the moms continue hanging with some hot apple cider, coffee or tea. Then reconvene with the parents and kids together to examine all of the loot (kids love to show their parents and other kids the loot).
6. Learn the Stories - If you are out Trick or Treating with the kiddos or staying back with the other parents, ask questions…get to know their stories. Pay attention to their hearts and their felt needs. Look for opportunities to serve them later. This is how I first got to know Clay (while Jayne was hanging with Kristi and the other moms). I learned his story while we were with the kids and Jayne got to know hers. This led to both of them eventually coming to faith in Jesus.
GO TO THEIR PLACE
Join what is happening elsewhere:
7. Attend the Party - If others are throwing parties, you may want to join them. If so, bring drinks, food or whatever is needed. Then, serve by helping to clean up.
8. Join the Community - If your community has key events, join them and invite some neighbors to go with you (then get to know their stories along the way). Our area has a trick or treating event on a main street where all the businesses give out candy, the firemen give tours of the fire engines, etc. We go with a group of friends to this each year and consistently meet more people to reach out to.
9. Head to the “Watering Holes” - If you do not have kids or are not going to engage in the Trick or Treating activities or events, consider going to the local pubs, restaurants or clubs near you for their events and get to know the people there. Make it your goal to learn the story of at least one person who needs Jesus and walk away with some next steps on how to serve them. You will want to do this with others so that you don’t go it alone.
Ask for the Spirit to lead, guide and work:
10. Pay Attention - Ask the Spirit to open your eyes and ears to the real needs around you.
11. Stay Dependent - Ask the Spirit to help you listen, care and serve those around you.
12. Open Doors - Ask the Spirit for open doors for new relationships and gospel conversations.
13. HAVE FUN - That's right - Have fun - it's ok
So often we find ourselves confused or unsure as we walk through life. Maybe you’re confused RIGHT NOW about something. Maybe you’re not sure what is right or wrong in a situation…. Maybe you have decisions to make, and you’re not sure what is best….Maybe you aren’t sure who you are supposed to be, or where to invest your time, or even how to respond to a text message.
Whether it’s something big or small, I want to remind you what 1 Corinthians 14:33 says: “For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace”. God gives peace, not confusion. He also directs our steps, like Psalm 37:23-24 says. He delights in EVERY detail of your life. You can be confident that even if you’re confused about the smallest detail of your life, God cares and He will direct you!
Hope is here
Welcome. We are honored you stopped by to check us out. Please, pull up a chair and hang out for a while. We value your presence and conversation. Feel free to message us any questions or thoughts you may have.